Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Okay maybe not like that...
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Lesson on Appearance
- Thread starter TheMan425
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Recently (this year) I really changed my style. Went from relaly ghetto look, To half dress half ghetto look (using my dress pants with the ghetto shirts) now im wearing some ghetto shirts and alot of collard shirts, they go good with my dress pants/shorts (D!ckies). More than doubling my comments. (Still wear shoes like reebok classics and etc). I got kind of a different look than any other guy in my school.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Yah I love my white reeboks. The only problem is if I'm going to wear my white reeboks, I gotta dress down a little. Then I have more of an 'Usher' type style.
I prefer my classy though. Man I wish I had a digital camera.
I prefer my classy though. Man I wish I had a digital camera.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I've been through a similar change. I went from ghetto-ish, to decently dressed, to preppy, and now I'm very fond of my dress pants, button ups, dress shoes, fake diamond earrings, short spikey hair...just all around clean cut and stylish. They notice [/QUOTE
you sound just like me. used to where those pinwheel fitted caps, jerseys, and such. now i regularly where button-ups, sometimes dress pants too. i still where a matching pinwheel hat once a week, but not in an attempt to be a wigger. only if it matches my button-up.
you sound just like me. used to where those pinwheel fitted caps, jerseys, and such. now i regularly where button-ups, sometimes dress pants too. i still where a matching pinwheel hat once a week, but not in an attempt to be a wigger
. only if it matches my button-up.it seems that is a popular change nowa days. ghetto to semi-ghetto or ghetto to preppy. that ghetto stuff used to be cool i think but after a while it gets played out. change is good. you will get good results if you make the right change. any one else who thinks other wise