"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Lesson #1

TheRisingSon

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Although many of the "D.J.'s" and "P.U.A's" will disagree, the the first lesson to learn is f*ck what everyone else thinks or says. Oh, they will preach it, but they won't *believe* it, thus the Bible and A.S.F.

Think of everyone that you consider "cool." Do they give one sh!t if *you* think they are cool? This will sound like grandstanding, but it isn't. I have been told many times that I "am cool because I don't give a f*ck what anyone thinks of me."

Does that mean I act like a "Man?" Dunno. Does that mean I "dress to impress?" Dunno. Does that mean I "am a Mystery?" Dunno. Does that mean I "don't Supplicate?" Dunno. Does that mean I "am a Challenge?" Dunno. Does that mean I "have Confidence?" Well, yes.

Actually, it means I do all of the above without thought. You can too. How? Stop listening!!!!!

Stop listening to the media that tells you that you are no good unless you have (A), (B), and (C). F*ck pimping my ride. My ride is pimp because *I* am in it.

As soon as you accept yourself (doesn't mean don't improve yourself), the better off you are. Look at reality, no matter how harsh it is, and take the needed steps to fix it. It might take time, but time will progress with or without you.

Oh, and if you think, I have to act "dumb" to impress a woman, then you *are* dumb.

I Have Risen
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by TheRisingSon
Stop listening to the media that tells you that you are no good unless you have (A), (B), and (C). F*ck pimping my ride. My ride is pimp because *I* am in it.
fo sho
 

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*standing ovation for this post* Bravo!!!
 

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Good Post
Realizing that on your own is pretty impressive, dude.

it's all been said before though.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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