"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lesson #1

TheRisingSon

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Although many of the "D.J.'s" and "P.U.A's" will disagree, the the first lesson to learn is f*ck what everyone else thinks or says. Oh, they will preach it, but they won't *believe* it, thus the Bible and A.S.F.

Think of everyone that you consider "cool." Do they give one sh!t if *you* think they are cool? This will sound like grandstanding, but it isn't. I have been told many times that I "am cool because I don't give a f*ck what anyone thinks of me."

Does that mean I act like a "Man?" Dunno. Does that mean I "dress to impress?" Dunno. Does that mean I "am a Mystery?" Dunno. Does that mean I "don't Supplicate?" Dunno. Does that mean I "am a Challenge?" Dunno. Does that mean I "have Confidence?" Well, yes.

Actually, it means I do all of the above without thought. You can too. How? Stop listening!!!!!

Stop listening to the media that tells you that you are no good unless you have (A), (B), and (C). F*ck pimping my ride. My ride is pimp because *I* am in it.

As soon as you accept yourself (doesn't mean don't improve yourself), the better off you are. Look at reality, no matter how harsh it is, and take the needed steps to fix it. It might take time, but time will progress with or without you.

Oh, and if you think, I have to act "dumb" to impress a woman, then you *are* dumb.

I Have Risen
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by TheRisingSon
Stop listening to the media that tells you that you are no good unless you have (A), (B), and (C). F*ck pimping my ride. My ride is pimp because *I* am in it.
fo sho
 

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*standing ovation for this post* Bravo!!!
 

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Good Post
Realizing that on your own is pretty impressive, dude.

it's all been said before though.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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