"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Length of Sex

What's the ideal length of sex?

  • Under 30 Minutes

    Votes: 6 25.0%

  • 30 Minutes - 1 Hour

    Votes: 13 54.2%

  • 1 Hour - 1.5 Hours

    Votes: 2 8.3%

  • 1.5 Hours - 2 Hours

    Votes: 1 4.2%

  • 2+ Hours

    Votes: 2 8.3%
  • Total voters
    24
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Whatcha think is the desired overall length (in time) for sex to last?

Don't just think "longer time is better." Why? I was with this one girl at school and ended it hittin' it for over three hours (consecutively). I was pretty drunk so the whisky-d!ck effect needs to be taken into consideration, but I kid you not. Three hours to me is too damn long - I'm not in that good of shape. Also, about an hour and a half into it I had pretty much exhausted my knowledge of positions so improvisation took a few interesting turns.

When all was said and done, she eneded up getting in trouble with her R.A. the next day because she recieved noise complaints from her neighbors from 2:00-5:00 AM and I felt bad (but not really that bad :) )

So, whatcha guys think?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Normally I'll do it for about 1.5-2 hours (with breaks) but I think that's too long so I try to go for around an hour.

Also, if I have sex too much my penis gets sore.
 
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from my experiences with my girlfriend, 20-40 minutes of sex was probably best..
 
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