"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Length of Sex

What's the ideal length of sex?

  • Under 30 Minutes

    Votes: 6 25.0%
  • 30 Minutes - 1 Hour

    Votes: 13 54.2%
  • 1 Hour - 1.5 Hours

    Votes: 2 8.3%
  • 1.5 Hours - 2 Hours

    Votes: 1 4.2%
  • 2+ Hours

    Votes: 2 8.3%

  • Total voters
    24

CableLight

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Whatcha think is the desired overall length (in time) for sex to last?

Don't just think "longer time is better." Why? I was with this one girl at school and ended it hittin' it for over three hours (consecutively). I was pretty drunk so the whisky-d!ck effect needs to be taken into consideration, but I kid you not. Three hours to me is too damn long - I'm not in that good of shape. Also, about an hour and a half into it I had pretty much exhausted my knowledge of positions so improvisation took a few interesting turns.

When all was said and done, she eneded up getting in trouble with her R.A. the next day because she recieved noise complaints from her neighbors from 2:00-5:00 AM and I felt bad (but not really that bad :) )

So, whatcha guys think?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Evil-Rom

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Normally I'll do it for about 1.5-2 hours (with breaks) but I think that's too long so I try to go for around an hour.

Also, if I have sex too much my penis gets sore.
 

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from my experiences with my girlfriend, 20-40 minutes of sex was probably best..
 
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