Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Length of Sex

What's the ideal length of sex?

  • Under 30 Minutes

    Votes: 6 25.0%
  • 30 Minutes - 1 Hour

    Votes: 13 54.2%
  • 1 Hour - 1.5 Hours

    Votes: 2 8.3%
  • 1.5 Hours - 2 Hours

    Votes: 1 4.2%
  • 2+ Hours

    Votes: 2 8.3%

  • Total voters
    24

CableLight

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Whatcha think is the desired overall length (in time) for sex to last?

Don't just think "longer time is better." Why? I was with this one girl at school and ended it hittin' it for over three hours (consecutively). I was pretty drunk so the whisky-d!ck effect needs to be taken into consideration, but I kid you not. Three hours to me is too damn long - I'm not in that good of shape. Also, about an hour and a half into it I had pretty much exhausted my knowledge of positions so improvisation took a few interesting turns.

When all was said and done, she eneded up getting in trouble with her R.A. the next day because she recieved noise complaints from her neighbors from 2:00-5:00 AM and I felt bad (but not really that bad :) )

So, whatcha guys think?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Evil-Rom

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Normally I'll do it for about 1.5-2 hours (with breaks) but I think that's too long so I try to go for around an hour.

Also, if I have sex too much my penis gets sore.
 

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from my experiences with my girlfriend, 20-40 minutes of sex was probably best..
 
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