"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Im not all that experienced when it comes to sex, the other stuff I have pretty much mastered although when it comes to sex I think Im pretty inexperienced.

How long +- should one be in bed doing the "deed"?

How does one go for long periods without having to orgazm?

What are good ways to get the woman to orgazm?

Any tips from experienced people will be appreciated...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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If you're experienced with all the "other stuff", you should be able to use that alone to bring your woman to orgasm. If you really want some good stuff, check out the Advanced Sexual Techniques in the DJ Bible. Some good stuff that I've used many times that (surprise) works like a charm.
 
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young_gun:

I do use that alone to bring her to orgazm although as I think we all know orgazming whilst being fingered/muffed is a different animal to the orgazm of sex, right?

I can get her to orgazm when I finger her but struggle when it comes to sex, do you know what the problem could be?

Also, I seem to "perform" better when I have been drinking and when I have let out a load earlier in the day... is that the only way I can go for long periods?

Ill check out the advanced thingy now...

More tips would be welcome...
 
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LOL, I tend to perform better when I've had a few drinks too. Something that a lot of people have done is Kegel exercises (look it up). I've tried them, but I haven't been committed enough to doing them to actually achieve any kind of benefit from them (I read that it takes about 4-6 weeks to notice any kind of difference). If you're having problems lasting, I would try these.

I didn't get laid for about a year and a half before I met my current girlfriend (a whole 'nother post in itself) and when we first started doing it, I bought the Trojan Extended Pleasure condoms. They definitely desensitize your junk, but I was so jacked that I was actually having sex again that they didn't help me a whole lot. Over time, they'll work better when you start getting laid more often. You'll get to the point where you have to buy the thin ones because you can't cvm with the Extended Pleasure ones because you can't even feel yourself having sex anymore b/c your sh1t is so desensitized.

But yeah, give the Kegels a try. Anyone got any good stories about experiences you've had with doing them? One good story would be enough to motivate me to do them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Everyone performs longer and better after drinking. Your member isn't as sensitive and in turn can last longer.

How long should sex be? It all varies. I'd say on average anywhere between 15 - 30 minutes is something good to shoot for. I've had intense long sessions of 1 - 2 hours before, but face it these don't come every day. As far as lasting longer, getting to know your body better and studying up on some exercises is always a good way to go. Kegels help immensely when it comes to these things.
 
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