"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Im not all that experienced when it comes to sex, the other stuff I have pretty much mastered although when it comes to sex I think Im pretty inexperienced.

How long +- should one be in bed doing the "deed"?

How does one go for long periods without having to orgazm?

What are good ways to get the woman to orgazm?

Any tips from experienced people will be appreciated...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you're experienced with all the "other stuff", you should be able to use that alone to bring your woman to orgasm. If you really want some good stuff, check out the Advanced Sexual Techniques in the DJ Bible. Some good stuff that I've used many times that (surprise) works like a charm.
 
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young_gun:

I do use that alone to bring her to orgazm although as I think we all know orgazming whilst being fingered/muffed is a different animal to the orgazm of sex, right?

I can get her to orgazm when I finger her but struggle when it comes to sex, do you know what the problem could be?

Also, I seem to "perform" better when I have been drinking and when I have let out a load earlier in the day... is that the only way I can go for long periods?

Ill check out the advanced thingy now...

More tips would be welcome...
 
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LOL, I tend to perform better when I've had a few drinks too. Something that a lot of people have done is Kegel exercises (look it up). I've tried them, but I haven't been committed enough to doing them to actually achieve any kind of benefit from them (I read that it takes about 4-6 weeks to notice any kind of difference). If you're having problems lasting, I would try these.

I didn't get laid for about a year and a half before I met my current girlfriend (a whole 'nother post in itself) and when we first started doing it, I bought the Trojan Extended Pleasure condoms. They definitely desensitize your junk, but I was so jacked that I was actually having sex again that they didn't help me a whole lot. Over time, they'll work better when you start getting laid more often. You'll get to the point where you have to buy the thin ones because you can't cvm with the Extended Pleasure ones because you can't even feel yourself having sex anymore b/c your sh1t is so desensitized.

But yeah, give the Kegels a try. Anyone got any good stories about experiences you've had with doing them? One good story would be enough to motivate me to do them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Everyone performs longer and better after drinking. Your member isn't as sensitive and in turn can last longer.

How long should sex be? It all varies. I'd say on average anywhere between 15 - 30 minutes is something good to shoot for. I've had intense long sessions of 1 - 2 hours before, but face it these don't come every day. As far as lasting longer, getting to know your body better and studying up on some exercises is always a good way to go. Kegels help immensely when it comes to these things.
 
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