Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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leing about boyfreind

check_mate_kid_uk

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now i did try the search function and not a lot came up so could some one refresh my memory as to why a girl might lie saying that she has a boyfreind (i dont mean in a cold approch i mean a girl from school that seems possibly intrested and added me on to instant messenger and keeps talking to me)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The only thing I can think of is that she isn't interestend romantically or just isn't lying. Really don't see any other option.
 

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LJBF ? She's not interested. I believe that is what that means.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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i didnt ask her if she had 1, she mentioned it. after asking me many times who i fancy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nice of you lot to tell me this, but i was kind of asking the more epxerince DJ's that actuly know this stuff, to answer. I read all about it before but forgot about it.
 

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If I was up your ass you'd know
she might be lying to you saying she has a boyfriend so you won't be interested in you, or maybe she does have a boyfriend. Either way. There isn't a lot to read into, stop worrying about it. You should always judge actions over words.
 

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Reading between the lines...

check_mate_kid_uk: The answer here is simple...

By her saying to you that she has a bf after asking u who u fancy she is trying to get to your "jelousy" emotion.

1) She probably knows that a guy wants something he CANT have more than something he can have (phsycologically)

2) She wanted to see your reaction, but why would she want to see your reaction? BECAUSE SHE IS INTERESTED IN YOU. She just has a wierd way of showing it, and is affraid that u might not be interested in HER.

3) She doesnt want u to think "oh, she likes me cause she is asking me who i fancy" so she uses that to "cover up" that she really IS interested in you.

Overall, from what i gather, she IS interested in you.

Goodluck ;)
 

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yeah i belive that was what i heared a long time ago and forgot, thanx for that. People dio actuly remark on her being weird, and she told me she is. Like i thought she would not start a convo with me on instant messenger as soon as i go on, because she isnt intrested in me.
 
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