"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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leing about boyfreind

check_mate_kid_uk

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now i did try the search function and not a lot came up so could some one refresh my memory as to why a girl might lie saying that she has a boyfreind (i dont mean in a cold approch i mean a girl from school that seems possibly intrested and added me on to instant messenger and keeps talking to me)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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The only thing I can think of is that she isn't interestend romantically or just isn't lying. Really don't see any other option.
 

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LJBF ? She's not interested. I believe that is what that means.
 

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i didnt ask her if she had 1, she mentioned it. after asking me many times who i fancy.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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nice of you lot to tell me this, but i was kind of asking the more epxerince DJ's that actuly know this stuff, to answer. I read all about it before but forgot about it.
 

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she might be lying to you saying she has a boyfriend so you won't be interested in you, or maybe she does have a boyfriend. Either way. There isn't a lot to read into, stop worrying about it. You should always judge actions over words.
 

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Reading between the lines...

check_mate_kid_uk: The answer here is simple...

By her saying to you that she has a bf after asking u who u fancy she is trying to get to your "jelousy" emotion.

1) She probably knows that a guy wants something he CANT have more than something he can have (phsycologically)

2) She wanted to see your reaction, but why would she want to see your reaction? BECAUSE SHE IS INTERESTED IN YOU. She just has a wierd way of showing it, and is affraid that u might not be interested in HER.

3) She doesnt want u to think "oh, she likes me cause she is asking me who i fancy" so she uses that to "cover up" that she really IS interested in you.

Overall, from what i gather, she IS interested in you.

Goodluck ;)
 

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yeah i belive that was what i heared a long time ago and forgot, thanx for that. People dio actuly remark on her being weird, and she told me she is. Like i thought she would not start a convo with me on instant messenger as soon as i go on, because she isnt intrested in me.
 
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