"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Legs rubbing
- Thread starter DJDoomage
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
spesmilitis
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Francisco d'Anconia
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LOL!Francisco d'Anconia said:(unless you like that feeling).
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
That day I posted original post it was rubbing bad. Oh well, its not a big deal, Im looking for lube. Walgreens has it online but not in store I visited.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Try a sporting goods store. Shops for runners or cyclists would have it or something like it too.DJDoomage said:Yea I thought I either get that lubricant or some long underwear or something. But I was unable to find the lub, so I ran yesterday and today, and nothing. Nothing is rubbing.
That day I posted original post it was rubbing bad. Oh well, its not a big deal, Im looking for lube. Walgreens has it online but not in store I visited.