"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Legs rubbing
- Thread starter DJDoomage
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
spesmilitis
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Francisco d'Anconia
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LOL!Francisco d'Anconia said:(unless you like that feeling).
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That day I posted original post it was rubbing bad. Oh well, its not a big deal, Im looking for lube. Walgreens has it online but not in store I visited.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Try a sporting goods store. Shops for runners or cyclists would have it or something like it too.DJDoomage said:Yea I thought I either get that lubricant or some long underwear or something. But I was unable to find the lub, so I ran yesterday and today, and nothing. Nothing is rubbing.
That day I posted original post it was rubbing bad. Oh well, its not a big deal, Im looking for lube. Walgreens has it online but not in store I visited.