"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Here's a little food for thought for all ya bastards:D

What do you want to leave behind when your gone from this world, what will be your legacy???

(Oh, and dont give me any bullsh#t about leaving a legacy is just a weak attempt for immortality cause you are leaving one like it or not, the only choice you have is what it will be):cool:

(Oh2, and please dont limit yourself, I asked my friend this and his answer was two kids and a house:rolleyes: ......)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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whoops, forgot I was in the tips section, please move this to either hs or dj forum...
 

hardwork

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Originally posted by Ares
whoops, forgot I was in the tips section, please move this to either hs or dj forum...
I didn't quite hear a "Please" in there, mister...!
 

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Good question. I think everyone thinks of this ocassionally!!

I always want to keep my reputation of being a ladies man. :D

A good business man.

Have people working to make me rich, not work my entire life to make someone else rich.

Set my kids and grandkids up with financial security.

Have a great wife.

Raise my kids as best I can.

Succeed in my sports, boxing, golf etc. Not to reach the highs of the sports, but just do well in them generally.

Not be remembered as a man with the philosophy of Nicollo Machiavelli, in that the ends justify the means. But treating people with justified respect along my way.

Thats about it :)
 

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I want to spread the love that I have found within myself to EVERYONE. I have relised that we have only one chance on earth and I chose to make for the betterment of man kind and rekindle the species of brain evolution, not de-evolution which you could see right now. This de-evolution of mankind is present everywhere, so many fighting and death present, this is the depresion of human nature. I want to show people the light, to show them what I have relised about life and spread the love. God says love thy neighbor, which should be the key rule in todays society, I would like to ingrain this value into everyone out there with an openmind. All we have is each other, so we must ALL work toghether as whole unit and flow with each other.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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