"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Leg Day - Front Squats

Cloudtopsun2100

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 18, 2004
Messages
340
Reaction score
42
Location
KC
What exercises compliments front squats the best?

Used to do only back squats till I kinda tweaked a tendon in my knee. Its all better now but then I got interested in exercises that are less taxing on my knees and I found the front squat. Now my leg days are based on a concentration on back then front squats? I gotta clean the bar up for the front squats so the amount I front squat is limited to my clean max.

But, its amazing the burn I get from the back/front/clean workout though. What else can further enhance the workout?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

marmel75

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 4, 2012
Messages
7,175
Reaction score
5,571
Cloudtopsun2100 said:
What exercises compliments front squats the best?

Used to do only back squats till I kinda tweaked a tendon in my knee. Its all better now but then I got interested in exercises that are less taxing on my knees and I found the front squat. Now my leg days are based on a concentration on back then front squats? I gotta clean the bar up for the front squats so the amount I front squat is limited to my clean max.

But, its amazing the burn I get from the back/front/clean workout though. What else can further enhance the workout?
Immediately after finishing each set do 15-20 jump squats.

Then prepare not to be able to walk the next day.
 

Cloudtopsun2100

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 18, 2004
Messages
340
Reaction score
42
Location
KC
Espi said:
Ha ha NOTHING in my opinion mixes well with squats--just more torture.

For the past year or so I've habitually started my workouts with front squats and pullups, 3-4 sets, little-to-no rest in between. I pyramid the weight up with each superset.

Front squats 135 x 15
Pullups bodyweight only 8-10 reps

rest only as needed

Front squats 165 x 12
Pullups 10 lb. plate stuck into my backpack 6-8 reps

rest only as much as needed (usually sweating now)

Front squats 185 x 10
Pullups 2-10 lb. plates inserted into my backpack 4-6 reps

rest only as much as needed

Front squats 225 x 8
Pullups 25 lb. plate inserted into my backpack 2-4 reps


By the time I complete 4 sets of these, I'm usually sweating profusely and breathing hard. I'll then usually repeat another superset involving shoulder movement with leg extensions.

Supersets can also be done on leg days. Squats followed by leg extensions or vice versa...
Thats a novel idea. I usually center my back days around pullups but I could go ahead and move pullups to leg day so I can do something extra while waiting between sets.
 

Cloudtopsun2100

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 18, 2004
Messages
340
Reaction score
42
Location
KC
yannick43 said:
I injured myself doing heavy squats, now i go for reps 100 pounds i go for 21 reps 4 sets.

When i was training in kyokushin karate we used to do so many bodyweight squats.

There are many varieties of squats you can try, i don't like the front squats its uncomfortable for me.

ya they feel a bit different. Have you tried those single leg bodyweight squats? they seem like a good workout
 
Top