"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lefty's Cold Approach Audio Files***

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***Lefty's Cold Approach Audio Files***

I have with me a pair of headphones with a mic, a voice recording app, and some serious balls.

This will be my audio file log of cold approaches.

I don't know how often, or when, I'll approach - but I'll try to go as often as possible.

With this, I want to create something that I can look back on and review as I progress and start making *****es fall in love with me ;ooo

In addition, I WANT FEEDBACK FROM YOU GUYS. I want your harsh criticism and your words of perpetual wisdom. The great thing about these audio files is I can go back and listen to EXACTLY what I said. I can figure out pretty well on my own what I need to improve, but it's always nice to hear what you guys have to say.


So that's it. I'll update whenever I have time. I'd say wish me luck....but i don't need it :up:
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Approach #1 - AWKWARDSTUFF - 1.5.13


https://soundcloud.com/randomstuffaudiofiles/approach-1-awkwardstuff


WHY DOES MY VOICE SOUND SO WEIRD???

Setting:
I was at the mall with my wing. As I walked by the Apple store I made ec with this INSANELY gorgeous hired gun. Literally. I'm talking hb9/9.5. She was the hottest girl we saw all night... So with palms sweaty, I engage in my first true cold approach in nearly 6 months. I walked into the apple store like I was scanning for her. I spotted her - receded behind her table/counter thing - made my feet move, and blurted this out...

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Some customers came and interrupted us @ like 3:06...which is probably a good thing since it got really awkward after my comment. I simply leaned back and waited for her to finish.

....

Then we got interrupted again @ 4:20. So I slid my phone across to her and waited for like 3 ****ing minutes for her to type her number in. And then I swag walked out.
 

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The file cannot be found.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BPH said:
Your file cannot be found
I don't have a file.

OK Discussion continuing here.

In response to the guy who said the top 3 things was bad, I disagree. I think it can be a pretty good gimmick, but the problem here was that you didn't have time for stuff like that.
 

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This is going to be really interesting. Keep updating this.
 

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Props for having some balls. You started a somewhat interesting conversation, so that's a plus.

Here are some things that you can do:

1. Slow down your speech. I know you're nervous, but work on this. You're talking really quickly, and just by listening I bet your body language is nervous too.

2. You basically told her that she had you immediately with zero work. Instead of "you're hot, i like you, give me your number", try "you caught my attention, are you hot and interesting?"
 

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sageproduct said:
I don't have a file.

OK Discussion continuing here.

In response to the guy who said the top 3 things was bad, I disagree. I think it can be a pretty good gimmick, but the problem here was that you didn't have time for stuff like that.
Mr. Bond said:
Props for having some balls. You started a somewhat interesting conversation, so that's a plus.

Here are some things that you can do:

1. Slow down your speech. I know you're nervous, but work on this. You're talking really quickly, and just by listening I bet your body language is nervous too.

2. You basically told her that she had you immediately with zero work. Instead of "you're hot, i like you, give me your number", try "you caught my attention, are you hot and interesting?"
Thanks bond.

What you said is exactly right, but like sage said you don't have that much time with hired guns, which can be a problem..
 

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Awesome stuff, I'll be keeping up with this.

PS: Any possible way to make the girl's voice louder? At some points it was kinda hard to hear.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ARrocket said:
Awesome stuff, I'll be keeping up with this.

PS: Any possible way to make the girl's voice louder? At some points it was kinda hard to hear.
Thanks man.

No. Stand closer i guess haha

I could mess with the audio i guess but i don't really feel like doing that
 

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Demonpenz said:
You should do old school routines for fun one day.
Like what?
 

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Mr. Bond said:
2. You basically told her that she had you immediately with zero work. Instead of "you're hot, i like you, give me your number", try "you caught my attention, are you hot and interesting?"
or how about

You had my Curiosity but now you have my attention.
 

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cfdagola said:
or how about

You had my Curiosity but now you have my attention.
i feel like this is good sometime after opener.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Was going to go out these past couple days, but its literally been a blizzard out there. I think its been snowing for over 36 hours straight here.
 

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AlexLefty said:
Was going to go out these past couple days, but its literally been a blizzard out there. I think its been snowing for over 36 hours straight here.
Out in Cali? Nawwwwwww.
 

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Love the guts you are showing. Just keep going no matter what. You might be the best ever some day.
 

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sageproduct said:
Out in Cali? Nawwwwwww.
i live in utah.

Demonpenz said:
Love the guts you are showing. Just keep going no matter what. You might be the best ever some day.
Damn thanks bro. that's very inspirational.
 

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Much respect man. I need to get out and approach, but i've been to lazy/pvssy to do it. Tomorrow, I'm gonna start just not giving a fvck and going for the rejection lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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