"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Lefty's Cold Approach Audio Files***

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***Lefty's Cold Approach Audio Files***

I have with me a pair of headphones with a mic, a voice recording app, and some serious balls.

This will be my audio file log of cold approaches.

I don't know how often, or when, I'll approach - but I'll try to go as often as possible.

With this, I want to create something that I can look back on and review as I progress and start making *****es fall in love with me ;ooo

In addition, I WANT FEEDBACK FROM YOU GUYS. I want your harsh criticism and your words of perpetual wisdom. The great thing about these audio files is I can go back and listen to EXACTLY what I said. I can figure out pretty well on my own what I need to improve, but it's always nice to hear what you guys have to say.


So that's it. I'll update whenever I have time. I'd say wish me luck....but i don't need it :up:
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Approach #1 - AWKWARDSTUFF - 1.5.13


https://soundcloud.com/randomstuffaudiofiles/approach-1-awkwardstuff


WHY DOES MY VOICE SOUND SO WEIRD???

Setting:
I was at the mall with my wing. As I walked by the Apple store I made ec with this INSANELY gorgeous hired gun. Literally. I'm talking hb9/9.5. She was the hottest girl we saw all night... So with palms sweaty, I engage in my first true cold approach in nearly 6 months. I walked into the apple store like I was scanning for her. I spotted her - receded behind her table/counter thing - made my feet move, and blurted this out...

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Some customers came and interrupted us @ like 3:06...which is probably a good thing since it got really awkward after my comment. I simply leaned back and waited for her to finish.

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Then we got interrupted again @ 4:20. So I slid my phone across to her and waited for like 3 ****ing minutes for her to type her number in. And then I swag walked out.
 

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The file cannot be found.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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BPH said:
Your file cannot be found
I don't have a file.

OK Discussion continuing here.

In response to the guy who said the top 3 things was bad, I disagree. I think it can be a pretty good gimmick, but the problem here was that you didn't have time for stuff like that.
 

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This is going to be really interesting. Keep updating this.
 

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Props for having some balls. You started a somewhat interesting conversation, so that's a plus.

Here are some things that you can do:

1. Slow down your speech. I know you're nervous, but work on this. You're talking really quickly, and just by listening I bet your body language is nervous too.

2. You basically told her that she had you immediately with zero work. Instead of "you're hot, i like you, give me your number", try "you caught my attention, are you hot and interesting?"
 

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sageproduct said:
I don't have a file.

OK Discussion continuing here.

In response to the guy who said the top 3 things was bad, I disagree. I think it can be a pretty good gimmick, but the problem here was that you didn't have time for stuff like that.
Mr. Bond said:
Props for having some balls. You started a somewhat interesting conversation, so that's a plus.

Here are some things that you can do:

1. Slow down your speech. I know you're nervous, but work on this. You're talking really quickly, and just by listening I bet your body language is nervous too.

2. You basically told her that she had you immediately with zero work. Instead of "you're hot, i like you, give me your number", try "you caught my attention, are you hot and interesting?"
Thanks bond.

What you said is exactly right, but like sage said you don't have that much time with hired guns, which can be a problem..
 

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Awesome stuff, I'll be keeping up with this.

PS: Any possible way to make the girl's voice louder? At some points it was kinda hard to hear.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ARrocket said:
Awesome stuff, I'll be keeping up with this.

PS: Any possible way to make the girl's voice louder? At some points it was kinda hard to hear.
Thanks man.

No. Stand closer i guess haha

I could mess with the audio i guess but i don't really feel like doing that
 

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Demonpenz said:
You should do old school routines for fun one day.
Like what?
 

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Mr. Bond said:
2. You basically told her that she had you immediately with zero work. Instead of "you're hot, i like you, give me your number", try "you caught my attention, are you hot and interesting?"
or how about

You had my Curiosity but now you have my attention.
 

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cfdagola said:
or how about

You had my Curiosity but now you have my attention.
i feel like this is good sometime after opener.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Was going to go out these past couple days, but its literally been a blizzard out there. I think its been snowing for over 36 hours straight here.
 

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AlexLefty said:
Was going to go out these past couple days, but its literally been a blizzard out there. I think its been snowing for over 36 hours straight here.
Out in Cali? Nawwwwwww.
 

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Love the guts you are showing. Just keep going no matter what. You might be the best ever some day.
 

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sageproduct said:
Out in Cali? Nawwwwwww.
i live in utah.

Demonpenz said:
Love the guts you are showing. Just keep going no matter what. You might be the best ever some day.
Damn thanks bro. that's very inspirational.
 

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Much respect man. I need to get out and approach, but i've been to lazy/pvssy to do it. Tomorrow, I'm gonna start just not giving a fvck and going for the rejection lol
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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