"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Lefty's Cold Approach Audio Files***
- Thread starter AlexLefty
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
jericg
Don Juan
sageproduct
Banned
Good sh1t bro. Thumbs up for SimplePickup! (God Mode)
I listened to the whole thing.
1. Ehh you thinking your voice sounding weird is just self-consciousness. I don't think your voice sounded weird. You sounded cool.
2. Too much bantering and not enough personal connecting, I think. This chick was at work, so you only had a couple minutes reasonably to talk to her before she had to get back to work. In the whole conversation, you joked back and forth but didn't make it personal at all, didn't get to know each other at all. Even in limited time, you should at least do some qualification.
3. I got the feeling that you reneged when asking for her number by quickly reacting and saying "Why are you laughing?" It kind of made it seem like you were unsure of yourself in asking for her #.
Anyway, really, really good job. First approach in 6 months? You sounded warmed up already. And remember, getting through those awkward situations is a very GOOD thing...kind of like pain is weakness leaving the body, well feeling awkward situations is equal to social inadequacy leaving your personality
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Friendly, non-judgmental and calm. You acted as though what you were doing was perfectly natural, but still acknowledged that it could be awkward for her. I'm excited for this thread to grow.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yeah i was so ****ing nervous lol. Yeah i still have to purge some of that insecurity. Solid tips too, thanks. Simple pick up ftw. yeah that was my 1st one. There were a couple after but i didn't have time to record.sageproduct said:
Yeah idk where that came from haha. Just came up with it on the spot. Thanks for the tips.LearningSlowly said:
Overall though guys, i'm going to continue this thread on the MAIN FORUM so more people can see it. Check back there because that's where i'll update. Link in my sig.