"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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left or right brain?

sucks2bU

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I'm just starting out and was wondering if it's better to
be left or right brained when it comes to becoming a PUA?
Left is logical and analytical and the right is more emotions.
It just seems like I'm becoming more left brained since
I dedicated myself to become a PUA.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I would say it's better to be right brained. I know it's never good to be too logical with women. The key to attraction is the way a woman feels when she's around you.
 

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It seems like I'm moving towards being left brained since
reading the material. Analyzing and always being concious
of my actions, interactions and body language. I think I used
to be more right brained before. I could relate to people better
and was happier i think. Does anyone else feel this way?
 

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It seems like I'm moving towards being left brained since
reading the material. Analyzing and always being concious
of my actions, interactions and body language. I think I used
to be more right brained before. I could relate to people better
and was happier i think. Does anyone else feel this way?
That's the problem that plagues most AFC's; analyzing too much.

Think about it, the true naturals with women, the true alpha males, don't have to think about picking up women. They just do it because it comes natural.

Sure there is a lot of stuff you can learn about dating that can help you improve your game, but you need to internalize it so it becomes second nature. It needs to become so much a part of you that you don't even have to think about it, you just take action instead.

But on the other hand, this is all just a numbers game.
 

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Originally posted by sucks2bU
I could relate to people better
and was happier i think.
dude! do what makes you happy!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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