"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Well after great frustration yesterday, i decided to tell my girl to pick up her things, and through my intelligent hb9 out of my appartement, and broke up with her.
Today, i regret and fell very sad about the situation..

The reason i broke up with her, was simply that she kept complaining over me, and had some serious issues with dobbelt standarts. Another reason being that i went through a 12 Day severe illness, where she only had time to be there for mé 1 Day - this also made me fell very sad.

Let it be Said though, that i have been with this girl for 8 months, and before that used 6 months to get to her.
I really care for her, and still dó love her.

But i need a kick In the nuts, and some tips for moving ón... Going back is not the Right thing, my mind/heart just have to realize it too..
Today i really felt like calling her to arrange a meet up, just so i could tell her how i fell.. but yet again, i know it is the wrong thing to do.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Wow.... I fell like Shvt!
- 12 hours after the breakup, she is mildly 'flirting' with an old flame, she kissed 2 weeks before we Got together....
 

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You dumped her for a good reason (if she's complaining it means interest level is going down). But now you're being a girl. You whine because she's not there for you when you're needy and sick? Who wants to be around some sick person?

Then you want her back the next day? Now you're spying on her and wondering why she's moving on? You've got to wait until she comes back or you're done.
 

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I disagree with the illness part, i would have been there for her - i Guess it is a matter of values.

But yes, i dumped her and have the felling of wanting her back, but i know i shouldn't, and i am not going to take her back.

The last part i have no comments for, nothing Else than i thought she cared a bit more for mé than that :(
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
if you got 1 HB9(assuming she's not crazy) you can get another one.

There's a guy i know that looks like a 2 or 3 but has some status(But not enough to make up for his looks). He got dumped by his 7 gf and is now dating a 9. Its the most unreal thing ever to me haha, Ive hit on both his gf's too(before I knew). Tight game conquers all.
I Guess something good allways follows a bad situation!
 
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