"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Well after great frustration yesterday, i decided to tell my girl to pick up her things, and through my intelligent hb9 out of my appartement, and broke up with her.
Today, i regret and fell very sad about the situation..

The reason i broke up with her, was simply that she kept complaining over me, and had some serious issues with dobbelt standarts. Another reason being that i went through a 12 Day severe illness, where she only had time to be there for mé 1 Day - this also made me fell very sad.

Let it be Said though, that i have been with this girl for 8 months, and before that used 6 months to get to her.
I really care for her, and still dó love her.

But i need a kick In the nuts, and some tips for moving ón... Going back is not the Right thing, my mind/heart just have to realize it too..
Today i really felt like calling her to arrange a meet up, just so i could tell her how i fell.. but yet again, i know it is the wrong thing to do.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Wow.... I fell like Shvt!
- 12 hours after the breakup, she is mildly 'flirting' with an old flame, she kissed 2 weeks before we Got together....
 

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You dumped her for a good reason (if she's complaining it means interest level is going down). But now you're being a girl. You whine because she's not there for you when you're needy and sick? Who wants to be around some sick person?

Then you want her back the next day? Now you're spying on her and wondering why she's moving on? You've got to wait until she comes back or you're done.
 

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I disagree with the illness part, i would have been there for her - i Guess it is a matter of values.

But yes, i dumped her and have the felling of wanting her back, but i know i shouldn't, and i am not going to take her back.

The last part i have no comments for, nothing Else than i thought she cared a bit more for mé than that :(
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
if you got 1 HB9(assuming she's not crazy) you can get another one.

There's a guy i know that looks like a 2 or 3 but has some status(But not enough to make up for his looks). He got dumped by his 7 gf and is now dating a 9. Its the most unreal thing ever to me haha, Ive hit on both his gf's too(before I knew). Tight game conquers all.
I Guess something good allways follows a bad situation!
 
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