"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Left ball in her court, good or bad idea?

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I've been out on two dates with this girl, who i met through my mates girlfriend and the two dates have gone really well I think, ended with a nice kiss last night.

These two dates have been set up by me and she seems to be interested, but when the night came to an end last night after i kissed her, I told her it was her turn to organise a night and that she was to call me. The thing is that this girl is on a pay as you go phone and never seems to txt so Im starting to wonder whether I've probably killed any chances with her by giving her control....duh!

am I screwed? probably, but if theres any advice then I would like to hear some.

Dave
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yeah do what duke says!! :D
 
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Originally posted by Dukester
wait a minute....

cutiepie, did you just agree w/ me?

what's up w/ that! lol
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lmao duke!!


:D :D :D

Oh you must want me to turn into my evil twin then lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You left the ball in her court on the second date after she has shown nothing but high interest?

That was a huge fumble.

You just relenquished one of the three C's. You have to maintain control. Only put the ball in her court if she is vacillating about you, and not before you've established a strong rapport. The only reason you do it THEN is to knock her off the fence by denying her the option and letting her feel how much her life would suck without you in it.

Recover the ball as soon as you can. Arrange to run into her and tell her you're wounded that she didn't call, but you'll let her make it up to you by going out with you saturday night.

-Cyrano
 
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check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by CyranoDeBergerac
tell her you're wounded that she didn't call, but you'll let her make it up to you by going out with you saturday night.
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you do not want to show her that you care about the fact she did not call.
 
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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
you do not want to show her that you care about the fact she did not call.
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That's why you play the whole thing over the top, so that she doesn't take it seriously. A small, joking mention of interest doesn't make him an effeminate pansy, but it does regain all the ground he lost with her and places her once again in his pocket. ;)
 
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Originally posted by CyranoDeBergerac
That's why you play the whole thing over the top, so that she doesn't take it seriously. A small, joking mention of interest doesn't make him an effeminate pansy, but it does regain all the ground he lost with her and places her once again in his pocket. ;)
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yeh i see what you mean, i have said it before tongue in cheek, like "well you can make it up to me by taking me out for ice cream"
 
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