"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's been fun guys but I have decided to post my future BC notes at the arizonapua.com BC. If you want to offer feedback to me at that site my user name is rockit.

Thanks for all the feedback, I might be back but I doubt it. I do have one last suggestion. Read everything you can about Tyler Durden and Juggler, that is where solid game exisists along with getting out in the field an surge like a MFer. :woo:

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jay-X

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i'm wondering what's this about these guys that leave a forum to join another one... can't they understand that you can EVEN (gasp!) visit more than one forum at once?!
anyway, no big loss, never heard of him before:D
 
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Re: Re: Leaving this forum

Originally posted by Jay-X
i'm wondering what's this about these guys that leave a forum to join another one... can't they understand that you can EVEN (gasp!) visit more than one forum at once?!
anyway, no big loss, never heard of him before:D
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Good point, let me rephrase my self. I will not be spending as much time on this form as I have in the past.
 
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Losing a member is always a pity, but I can understand people grow and move on.


Rock,

If you had a magic wand and could change anything about DJ forum what would it be?
 
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