"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's been fun guys but I have decided to post my future BC notes at the arizonapua.com BC. If you want to offer feedback to me at that site my user name is rockit.

Thanks for all the feedback, I might be back but I doubt it. I do have one last suggestion. Read everything you can about Tyler Durden and Juggler, that is where solid game exisists along with getting out in the field an surge like a MFer. :woo:

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jay-X

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i'm wondering what's this about these guys that leave a forum to join another one... can't they understand that you can EVEN (gasp!) visit more than one forum at once?!
anyway, no big loss, never heard of him before:D
 
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Re: Re: Leaving this forum

Originally posted by Jay-X
i'm wondering what's this about these guys that leave a forum to join another one... can't they understand that you can EVEN (gasp!) visit more than one forum at once?!
anyway, no big loss, never heard of him before:D
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Good point, let me rephrase my self. I will not be spending as much time on this form as I have in the past.
 
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Losing a member is always a pity, but I can understand people grow and move on.


Rock,

If you had a magic wand and could change anything about DJ forum what would it be?
 
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