"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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joekerr31

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well boys, its been good chatting it up with you for awhile now.

but time has come to get back to life full throttle.

so i wont be yacking it up on here anymore. perhaps ill be back in a year or so.

anyway, stay strong and keep focusing on living a positive life.

peace out dudes.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Wyldfire

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See ya around...
 

lookyoung

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Take care good luck with everything. I myself have been contemplating leaving also.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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you've been influential in my shaping my theories of DJism and self. Best of luck to you, my good friend.

comic_relief
 

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take me with you?
haha! take care and come back soon!
 

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While joekerr31’s input here was of the highest caliber, he leaves us with his most powerful message yet: Remember this board is a guide to life not a substitute for living.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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violator

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joekerr31 said:
well boys, its been good chatting it up with you for awhile now.

but time has come to get back to life full throttle.

so i wont be yacking it up on here anymore. perhaps ill be back in a year or so.

anyway, stay strong and keep focusing on living a positive life.

peace out dudes.
I said the same thing over three years ago when I officially "retired" from this site. But now, three years later I find myself chatting it up with the fellas again. So, I fully expect to hear from you again, probably sooner than you think.

In the meantime, go out and experience life to the fullest and give us a detailed report of your adventures when you come back.:rockon:
 

Potbelly

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dude, just make 3 more posts. then you will hit 1000!!

that makes you level up to ultramegazorddonjuanoALPHA!! then you can pwn all the other ppl on the inturnet!111!11oen1!1
 
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