"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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leaving sosuave for a while

joekerr31

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well boys, its been good chatting it up with you for awhile now.

but time has come to get back to life full throttle.

so i wont be yacking it up on here anymore. perhaps ill be back in a year or so.

anyway, stay strong and keep focusing on living a positive life.

peace out dudes.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Wyldfire

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See ya around...
 

lookyoung

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Take care good luck with everything. I myself have been contemplating leaving also.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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comic_relief

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you've been influential in my shaping my theories of DJism and self. Best of luck to you, my good friend.

comic_relief
 

penkitten

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take me with you?
haha! take care and come back soon!
 

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While joekerr31’s input here was of the highest caliber, he leaves us with his most powerful message yet: Remember this board is a guide to life not a substitute for living.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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violator

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joekerr31 said:
well boys, its been good chatting it up with you for awhile now.

but time has come to get back to life full throttle.

so i wont be yacking it up on here anymore. perhaps ill be back in a year or so.

anyway, stay strong and keep focusing on living a positive life.

peace out dudes.
I said the same thing over three years ago when I officially "retired" from this site. But now, three years later I find myself chatting it up with the fellas again. So, I fully expect to hear from you again, probably sooner than you think.

In the meantime, go out and experience life to the fullest and give us a detailed report of your adventures when you come back.:rockon:
 

Potbelly

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dude, just make 3 more posts. then you will hit 1000!!

that makes you level up to ultramegazorddonjuanoALPHA!! then you can pwn all the other ppl on the inturnet!111!11oen1!1
 
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