Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Leaving on Vacation...

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Physically and mentally.

I am acually going to Israel for Presidents week. I will write a journal and when I come back I will re-write it. I will try doing the "1....1000." (Going to impliment the DJ within me :D) Who knows what could happen. :p

In addition, I am also taking a vacation from the forums. In order to successful change my "government" (see thread: Fitch's inner revolution for more details) I need to spend more time on doing the things I NEED to do. The forum being not one of them.

You guys can stay in touch with me. All of you.

You can reach me at [email protected] (you too Anthony) -- we could finish our convo there.

I will drop by on occasion, but less frequently. Priorities first.

Feel free to email me! I will be glad to help with your problems and I also up for a mere chat!

See you around, all of you.

Good Luck to you guys. Thanks for your inspiration and support. I am ready to implement the DJ into my life. Not the forums.

The real learning begins... my life begins....

My revolution, is a success (as of tomorrow, see thread: fitch's inner revolution for more info.)

:cool: Bye,
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Well, here I go.

*Steps into the open world basking his face into the warm sunlight of tomorrow -- of the future.*
 
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Peace.

I will expect 2 stories when you come back. I suggest you try and get an A.
 
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Hey fitch,

I went to Israel last year and the year before that. Went to jerusalem and toured the old city. Masadas also a lot of fun.,

Which area are you going to be staying at?
 
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Tel Aviv with my brother. And Ashdod with my 2 cousins. I will be all over the place.

Tune in March 2nd for the details -- and my stories. :D I will incorporate my thoughts and encounters in Isreal.

I would post it sooner but I have mock trials!!!!!!!!! :cool: :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sounds awesome Fitch. Have fun, and do share your stories when you come back. :cool:
 
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UPDATE::: I will start my journal before I set off. One entry before leaving, if I find the time -- if note I will post it when I get back.

Flight date -- 18 February 2005, AFTERNOON.
 
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LEAVING NOW -- 1 p.m.

I WILL MAKE A NEW THREAD WHICH WILL CONTAIN MY JOURNAL ENTRIES / approaches when I return. I WILL UPDATE THIS THREAD, in addition, with the thread title.

-- I will also include some pics!
 
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Israel, mmm. Israeli psychedelic trance is the best - Astral Projection is one of my favorites. Funny, what happened to Goa... If you go to any psy trance discos, put up pix!
 
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