"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Leaving on Vacation...

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Physically and mentally.

I am acually going to Israel for Presidents week. I will write a journal and when I come back I will re-write it. I will try doing the "1....1000." (Going to impliment the DJ within me :D) Who knows what could happen. :p

In addition, I am also taking a vacation from the forums. In order to successful change my "government" (see thread: Fitch's inner revolution for more details) I need to spend more time on doing the things I NEED to do. The forum being not one of them.

You guys can stay in touch with me. All of you.

You can reach me at [email protected] (you too Anthony) -- we could finish our convo there.

I will drop by on occasion, but less frequently. Priorities first.

Feel free to email me! I will be glad to help with your problems and I also up for a mere chat!

See you around, all of you.

Good Luck to you guys. Thanks for your inspiration and support. I am ready to implement the DJ into my life. Not the forums.

The real learning begins... my life begins....

My revolution, is a success (as of tomorrow, see thread: fitch's inner revolution for more info.)

:cool: Bye,
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well, here I go.

*Steps into the open world basking his face into the warm sunlight of tomorrow -- of the future.*
 
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Peace.

I will expect 2 stories when you come back. I suggest you try and get an A.
 
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Hey fitch,

I went to Israel last year and the year before that. Went to jerusalem and toured the old city. Masadas also a lot of fun.,

Which area are you going to be staying at?
 
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Tel Aviv with my brother. And Ashdod with my 2 cousins. I will be all over the place.

Tune in March 2nd for the details -- and my stories. :D I will incorporate my thoughts and encounters in Isreal.

I would post it sooner but I have mock trials!!!!!!!!! :cool: :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sounds awesome Fitch. Have fun, and do share your stories when you come back. :cool:
 
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UPDATE::: I will start my journal before I set off. One entry before leaving, if I find the time -- if note I will post it when I get back.

Flight date -- 18 February 2005, AFTERNOON.
 
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LEAVING NOW -- 1 p.m.

I WILL MAKE A NEW THREAD WHICH WILL CONTAIN MY JOURNAL ENTRIES / approaches when I return. I WILL UPDATE THIS THREAD, in addition, with the thread title.

-- I will also include some pics!
 
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Israel, mmm. Israeli psychedelic trance is the best - Astral Projection is one of my favorites. Funny, what happened to Goa... If you go to any psy trance discos, put up pix!
 
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