Demon Wolf
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When you call a chick do you ever leave a message if she does not answer?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
yeh, its polite to and secondly thats what they're there for.
id suggest not leaving too many msgs though. one only.
leave a short msg, be to the point.
do not leave msgs like
"i just called, to say..i love you.."..thats lionels job.
"hey..just thought id call.."
"i guess you're too busy.."
call if you have smtn important to say..say it eg
hey just calling to confirm tonights date, meeting you at Xpm at X spot. see ya then.
also dont say anything you think you'll regret saying later.
hence why the keep to the point msg.
id suggest not leaving too many msgs though. one only.
leave a short msg, be to the point.
do not leave msgs like
"i just called, to say..i love you.."..thats lionels job.
"hey..just thought id call.."
"i guess you're too busy.."
call if you have smtn important to say..say it eg
hey just calling to confirm tonights date, meeting you at Xpm at X spot. see ya then.
also dont say anything you think you'll regret saying later.
hence why the keep to the point msg.
Jeffst1980
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"Hey it's [name]...call me back"
or,
"Hey it's [name]...I'll try you later"
Keep it simple and you'll increase your chances at getting a call back.
If you just met this girl, I'd send her a funny text message first to establish the line of communication. Girl almost ALWAYS respond to those, and once they've responded to you, they would feel rude to blow off your calls. Girl do NOT feel bad about not returning a call from a guy they just met.
or,
"Hey it's [name]...I'll try you later"
Keep it simple and you'll increase your chances at getting a call back.
If you just met this girl, I'd send her a funny text message first to establish the line of communication. Girl almost ALWAYS respond to those, and once they've responded to you, they would feel rude to blow off your calls. Girl do NOT feel bad about not returning a call from a guy they just met.
Leave what's called cliffhanger messages.
Say something like "Hey, this is John, I had something to ask you about. Give me a call back." or "Hi, Jane, this is John. I have something very interesting to tell you, so give me a call back."
Who the hell wants to call someone back for saying "Hey, it's me call me back"? That's not very intriguing.
Say something like "Hey, this is John, I had something to ask you about. Give me a call back." or "Hi, Jane, this is John. I have something very interesting to tell you, so give me a call back."
Who the hell wants to call someone back for saying "Hey, it's me call me back"? That's not very intriguing.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
There is a lot about the tone of your voice, and I think this is especially important when you leave a message. Once a girl left me message and she sounded like a little squirmy girl, but when I called her back and talked to her over the phone she sounded like the woman that I had met.
Also, the tone of your voice when you leave a message says a lot about your reaction to the person not picking up the phone. Make sure to have a healthy, confident voice that suits you.
Say something along the lines of: Hey (her name), this is (your name), I'm just calling to say hello and to see how your doing. I hope to hear from you soon, (your name).
The only reason you ever leave more than 1 message before she calls you back is if it is an absolute emergency situation.
Also, the tone of your voice when you leave a message says a lot about your reaction to the person not picking up the phone. Make sure to have a healthy, confident voice that suits you.
Say something along the lines of: Hey (her name), this is (your name), I'm just calling to say hello and to see how your doing. I hope to hear from you soon, (your name).
The only reason you ever leave more than 1 message before she calls you back is if it is an absolute emergency situation.