Demon Wolf
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When you call a chick do you ever leave a message if she does not answer?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
yeh, its polite to and secondly thats what they're there for.
id suggest not leaving too many msgs though. one only.
leave a short msg, be to the point.
do not leave msgs like
"i just called, to say..i love you.."..thats lionels job.
"hey..just thought id call.."
"i guess you're too busy.."
call if you have smtn important to say..say it eg
hey just calling to confirm tonights date, meeting you at Xpm at X spot. see ya then.
also dont say anything you think you'll regret saying later.
hence why the keep to the point msg.
id suggest not leaving too many msgs though. one only.
leave a short msg, be to the point.
do not leave msgs like
"i just called, to say..i love you.."..thats lionels job.
"hey..just thought id call.."
"i guess you're too busy.."
call if you have smtn important to say..say it eg
hey just calling to confirm tonights date, meeting you at Xpm at X spot. see ya then.
also dont say anything you think you'll regret saying later.
hence why the keep to the point msg.
Jeffst1980
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"Hey it's [name]...call me back"
or,
"Hey it's [name]...I'll try you later"
Keep it simple and you'll increase your chances at getting a call back.
If you just met this girl, I'd send her a funny text message first to establish the line of communication. Girl almost ALWAYS respond to those, and once they've responded to you, they would feel rude to blow off your calls. Girl do NOT feel bad about not returning a call from a guy they just met.
or,
"Hey it's [name]...I'll try you later"
Keep it simple and you'll increase your chances at getting a call back.
If you just met this girl, I'd send her a funny text message first to establish the line of communication. Girl almost ALWAYS respond to those, and once they've responded to you, they would feel rude to blow off your calls. Girl do NOT feel bad about not returning a call from a guy they just met.
Leave what's called cliffhanger messages.
Say something like "Hey, this is John, I had something to ask you about. Give me a call back." or "Hi, Jane, this is John. I have something very interesting to tell you, so give me a call back."
Who the hell wants to call someone back for saying "Hey, it's me call me back"? That's not very intriguing.
Say something like "Hey, this is John, I had something to ask you about. Give me a call back." or "Hi, Jane, this is John. I have something very interesting to tell you, so give me a call back."
Who the hell wants to call someone back for saying "Hey, it's me call me back"? That's not very intriguing.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
There is a lot about the tone of your voice, and I think this is especially important when you leave a message. Once a girl left me message and she sounded like a little squirmy girl, but when I called her back and talked to her over the phone she sounded like the woman that I had met.
Also, the tone of your voice when you leave a message says a lot about your reaction to the person not picking up the phone. Make sure to have a healthy, confident voice that suits you.
Say something along the lines of: Hey (her name), this is (your name), I'm just calling to say hello and to see how your doing. I hope to hear from you soon, (your name).
The only reason you ever leave more than 1 message before she calls you back is if it is an absolute emergency situation.
Also, the tone of your voice when you leave a message says a lot about your reaction to the person not picking up the phone. Make sure to have a healthy, confident voice that suits you.
Say something along the lines of: Hey (her name), this is (your name), I'm just calling to say hello and to see how your doing. I hope to hear from you soon, (your name).
The only reason you ever leave more than 1 message before she calls you back is if it is an absolute emergency situation.