"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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leaving in a few hours!

toddC

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Okay boys, I'm leaving for my senior spring break (in bahamas) in about 5 hours. Now my girl and I had a talk and I'm allowed to do ANYTHING I want down there without her getting mad. Now as of now ALL I can think about is just seeing her and doing something special for her before I leave. I saw her last night but I want to see her again today.

What can I do within these few hours to show her that she does mean a lot to me and that I will end up missing her a lot? (I know this is kind of AFC but I just have to do it...she looked so sad last night). Help me out boys!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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You could just tell her! Thou that depends how long you have been with her for.
 

LikRetsam

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toddC said:
Okay boys, I'm leaving for my senior spring break (in bahamas) in about 5 hours. Now my girl and I had a talk and I'm allowed to do ANYTHING I want down there without her getting mad. Now as of now ALL I can think about is just seeing her and doing something special for her before I leave. I saw her last night but I want to see her again today.

What can I do within these few hours to show her that she does mean a lot to me and that I will end up missing her a lot? (I know this is kind of AFC but I just have to do it...she looked so sad last night). Help me out boys!
Easy... It's called fidelity.
 

S1NN3R

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My personal experience has been that anytime a girl told me I could do snything I wanted, it wasn't because she wanted me to do anything I wanted it was either A) a sh!t test to see if I would actually believe her and do anything I wanted, or B) a subtle indication that it is actually her who wanted to do anything she wanted or has been doing anything she wanted and is trying to earn points (either with me, or internally for her own justification).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dannowillbookem

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tell her thats rediculous, your not gonna go fucck other girls while you have a girlfriend
 
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