"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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leaving in a few hours!

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toddC

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Okay boys, I'm leaving for my senior spring break (in bahamas) in about 5 hours. Now my girl and I had a talk and I'm allowed to do ANYTHING I want down there without her getting mad. Now as of now ALL I can think about is just seeing her and doing something special for her before I leave. I saw her last night but I want to see her again today.

What can I do within these few hours to show her that she does mean a lot to me and that I will end up missing her a lot? (I know this is kind of AFC but I just have to do it...she looked so sad last night). Help me out boys!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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You could just tell her! Thou that depends how long you have been with her for.
 
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LikRetsam

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toddC said:
Okay boys, I'm leaving for my senior spring break (in bahamas) in about 5 hours. Now my girl and I had a talk and I'm allowed to do ANYTHING I want down there without her getting mad. Now as of now ALL I can think about is just seeing her and doing something special for her before I leave. I saw her last night but I want to see her again today.

What can I do within these few hours to show her that she does mean a lot to me and that I will end up missing her a lot? (I know this is kind of AFC but I just have to do it...she looked so sad last night). Help me out boys!
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Easy... It's called fidelity.
 
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S1NN3R

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My personal experience has been that anytime a girl told me I could do snything I wanted, it wasn't because she wanted me to do anything I wanted it was either A) a sh!t test to see if I would actually believe her and do anything I wanted, or B) a subtle indication that it is actually her who wanted to do anything she wanted or has been doing anything she wanted and is trying to earn points (either with me, or internally for her own justification).
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dannowillbookem

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tell her thats rediculous, your not gonna go fucck other girls while you have a girlfriend
 
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