There's this girl that i've grown too attached to and i' m afraid i might fall into the friend zone. Since summer is here, i thought i should take this opprtunity to "avoid" her. Meaning whenver she asks me to hang out or do something, i'd say i'm busy or have something to do. Or maybe just not speak or see her during summer. Then when summer ends and school starts, wham here comes mr. new guy. Good idea or am i just pushing it.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Leaving her at Summer
- Thread starter Oni
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
sounds like a great idea.
although dont push it crazy (i.e. she tries to talk to u and EVERY time you avoid it...i mean u dont want her to get attracted then give up) but definetly make urself harder to find/stay up with is good. and dont just fake it. get out there and play.
although dont push it crazy (i.e. she tries to talk to u and EVERY time you avoid it...i mean u dont want her to get attracted then give up) but definetly make urself harder to find/stay up with is good. and dont just fake it. get out there and play.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Here comes mr new guy?? That sounds a little farfetched. Ignore her EVERYTIME she wants to hang out then miraculously when school starts youll talk to her and shell want you?? Im somehow a little skeptical about things going the way you dreamnt them.
MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO
Don Juan
dont ingnor her for tha whole summer lol....most girls give up tryin after 3 weeks unless u made a realy good impression on her but here u r ignorin her for 3months lol kinda funny.....but i understand what ur tryin 2 do... u should just go out with her then pretend that ur busy for a week or so then talk 2 her again keep doin it....
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
A DJ actually HAS stuff to do. He doesn't purposely ignore someone because he wants to be someone he's not. Picking up hobbies, starting a workout schedule, and working a lot will attract a woman more than not picking up the phone everytime she calls 
Don't completely ignore her or she'll never get a chance to see what kind of a guy you are. The point is to not make yourself "too" available.
Don't completely ignore her or she'll never get a chance to see what kind of a guy you are. The point is to not make yourself "too" available.