There's this girl that i've grown too attached to and i' m afraid i might fall into the friend zone. Since summer is here, i thought i should take this opprtunity to "avoid" her. Meaning whenver she asks me to hang out or do something, i'd say i'm busy or have something to do. Or maybe just not speak or see her during summer. Then when summer ends and school starts, wham here comes mr. new guy. Good idea or am i just pushing it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Leaving her at Summer
- Thread starter Oni
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
sounds like a great idea.
although dont push it crazy (i.e. she tries to talk to u and EVERY time you avoid it...i mean u dont want her to get attracted then give up) but definetly make urself harder to find/stay up with is good. and dont just fake it. get out there and play.
although dont push it crazy (i.e. she tries to talk to u and EVERY time you avoid it...i mean u dont want her to get attracted then give up) but definetly make urself harder to find/stay up with is good. and dont just fake it. get out there and play.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Here comes mr new guy?? That sounds a little farfetched. Ignore her EVERYTIME she wants to hang out then miraculously when school starts youll talk to her and shell want you?? Im somehow a little skeptical about things going the way you dreamnt them.
MVP¤¥¤JI€GALO
Don Juan
dont ingnor her for tha whole summer lol....most girls give up tryin after 3 weeks unless u made a realy good impression on her but here u r ignorin her for 3months lol kinda funny.....but i understand what ur tryin 2 do... u should just go out with her then pretend that ur busy for a week or so then talk 2 her again keep doin it....
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
A DJ actually HAS stuff to do. He doesn't purposely ignore someone because he wants to be someone he's not. Picking up hobbies, starting a workout schedule, and working a lot will attract a woman more than not picking up the phone everytime she calls 
Don't completely ignore her or she'll never get a chance to see what kind of a guy you are. The point is to not make yourself "too" available.
Don't completely ignore her or she'll never get a chance to see what kind of a guy you are. The point is to not make yourself "too" available.