"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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texmex23

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Well this question probably applies to some other people here since it is summer and alot of us leave somehwere for vacation and are in a relationship. I'm leaving at the end of this week and coming back around a month and i have a GF right now, so how should i go on handling this? Do I tell her that we should stay together and that i'll call her, or say that we should "take a break" and then when we see each other again to see if we still wanna go out? And if any of yall have any experiences with this, please post. Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Porky

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My girl and I broke up when she left for camp.

honestly it could go either way. do whatever you want.
 

UltimateScoundrel

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A lot of people are going to think i'm a bastard for saying this, but cheat. Cheat on her and hope she doesn't find out. I know plenty of guys that have a history of cheating on their girlfriends, and they still have no trouble finding new ones. Also, chances are, if you say it never happened and people are making things up because they are jealous of you, she'll believe you over them. Cheat cheat. After all, it can't be serious if you're considering taking a break.
 

texmex23

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anyone else got anything...oh yea and if you have say how it worked out afterwards....
 

08aisaac

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If you tell her you want to take a break then she knows that you are going to cheat so don't tell her. Just ask her what she thinks about it because she probaly wants to ask you about it too.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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