"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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leaving for the summer...

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texmex23

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Well this question probably applies to some other people here since it is summer and alot of us leave somehwere for vacation and are in a relationship. I'm leaving at the end of this week and coming back around a month and i have a GF right now, so how should i go on handling this? Do I tell her that we should stay together and that i'll call her, or say that we should "take a break" and then when we see each other again to see if we still wanna go out? And if any of yall have any experiences with this, please post. Thanks
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My girl and I broke up when she left for camp.

honestly it could go either way. do whatever you want.
 
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A lot of people are going to think i'm a bastard for saying this, but cheat. Cheat on her and hope she doesn't find out. I know plenty of guys that have a history of cheating on their girlfriends, and they still have no trouble finding new ones. Also, chances are, if you say it never happened and people are making things up because they are jealous of you, she'll believe you over them. Cheat cheat. After all, it can't be serious if you're considering taking a break.
 
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anyone else got anything...oh yea and if you have say how it worked out afterwards....
 
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If you tell her you want to take a break then she knows that you are going to cheat so don't tell her. Just ask her what she thinks about it because she probaly wants to ask you about it too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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