"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So I've been nailing this girl for a couple months now. In a couple weeks we will be moving to seperate citys. The problem is I'mhaving trouble keeping my feelings out of the dynamic She's all I think about. In fact in the beginning the **** buddy arrangeent is what she wanted but now she catching feelings as well. Still though I am more into this emotionaly then I think she is.

How do I keep from having these intense feelings and possibly even flip the tables so she would have stronger feelings then me? I know guys are going to say spin more plates but i'm a pretty monogomous guy by nature. Plus I have allot work to do.

Well, it's been hard to concetrate on anything other then her, openn to any suggestions
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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you should not have a fuk buddy if you like her. i had one last year but i knew from the start i didn't want anymore more. so it was an awesome time. im pretty sure she doesnt feel the same about you man. snap out of it, see other girls! she will probably dissapear if she finds out how you feel. i'd say make sure she actually really likes you before you start getting gooey on her. it's a tricky one man.
 
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LoneWolf said:
you should not have a fuk buddy if you like her. i had one last year but i knew from the start i didn't want anymore more. so it was an awesome time. im pretty sure she doesnt feel the same about you man. snap out of it, see other girls! she will probably dissapear if she finds out how you feel. i'd say make sure she actually really likes you before you start getting gooey on her. it's a tricky one man.
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How long did your ****buddy thing last (i wonder what the average is)? You guys just called eachother at night and ****ed? thats it? did she get jealous when you were with other girls or you get jealous when she was with other guys?

How can something like this last without some sort of structure established or feelings coming up?

As far as her feelings for me I only know that she has told me she has feelings which was an unsolicied statement, how else can i tell, what actions could i read that she couldn't hide?
 
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sosilky said:
How do I keep from having these intense feelings and possibly even flip the tables so she would have stronger feelings then me? I know guys are going to say spin more plates but i'm a pretty monogomous guy by nature. Plus I have allot work to do.
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Well, if you don't wanna spin more plates, you're gonna have to drop her cold turkey and go abstinent for a while. The more physical contact you have with this girl, the more your emotions will get the better of you.
 
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Well, if you don't wanna spin more plates, you're gonna have to drop her cold turkey and go abstinent for a while. The more physical contact you have with this girl, the more your emotions will get the better of you.
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Damn it! allright i'll sample some plates, any other advice?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sosilky said:
How long did your ****buddy thing last (i wonder what the average is)? You guys just called eachother at night and ****ed? thats it? did she get jealous when you were with other girls or you get jealous when she was with other guys?

How can something like this last without some sort of structure established or feelings coming up?

As far as her feelings for me I only know that she has told me she has feelings which was an unsolicied statement, how else can i tell, what actions could i read that she couldn't hide?
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actually we started off being friends because she said to me she just wanted to be friends cause she came out of a long relationship. i was having none of that because after a few weeks i just kissed her and we started fuking. another reason to not listen to what girls say :p - we actually hung out as friends too, not just for sex. i use to sleep over her house on weekends too and go out together. not always but sometimes. i sensed she started to like me at some point but she soon saw i didn't feel the same and knew i was seeing other girls. she stopped seeing me after 3 months and found another man (someone who wanted a relationship)
 
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