"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Leaving a lasting impression?

ToneDefJimmy

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Okay, so I may be SOL in this situation, but let me know what you guys think-

I just re-connected with a girl I had a huge cruch on in high school. We've been on a couple dates now and things are going well, but here's my problem-

I'm leaving this weekend and will be out of town for two weeks. Furthermore, for ten of those 14 days I'll be in Colorado backpacking and won't even have access to a phone.

How can I leave a lasting impression on her so I know she won't lose interest since I'll be gone for two weeks?

We have a date planned for Friday night, and I leave Saturday...

Advice would be greatly appreciated :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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blinkwatt

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If you havent kissed her yet kiss her,that will leave an impression.
 

Lion

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theres no formula except a simple one. keep it fun and kiss her before leaving.
 

milrenkb

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One girl should never mean that much to you until you've decided to put a ring around her finger. Or at least until you agree to be in a serious relationship with each other (which she should ask you for by the way). *Shivers* Hopefuly thats the last time I talk about marriage untill I'm 30.

Reread the material you've been learning here.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dannyrt34

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Haha

Maybe have sex with her.

That should leave an impression.

And if it doesn't, hey you still got it.:woo:
 

Morphiex

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put on a pink bunny outfit
then go to her house
ring the doorbell
and then start jumping all around her
then just leave .....
il bet you that will leave an impression on her =P
 
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