"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Leaving a lasting impression?

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ToneDefJimmy

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Okay, so I may be SOL in this situation, but let me know what you guys think-

I just re-connected with a girl I had a huge cruch on in high school. We've been on a couple dates now and things are going well, but here's my problem-

I'm leaving this weekend and will be out of town for two weeks. Furthermore, for ten of those 14 days I'll be in Colorado backpacking and won't even have access to a phone.

How can I leave a lasting impression on her so I know she won't lose interest since I'll be gone for two weeks?

We have a date planned for Friday night, and I leave Saturday...

Advice would be greatly appreciated :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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blinkwatt

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If you havent kissed her yet kiss her,that will leave an impression.
 
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Lion

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theres no formula except a simple one. keep it fun and kiss her before leaving.
 
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milrenkb

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One girl should never mean that much to you until you've decided to put a ring around her finger. Or at least until you agree to be in a serious relationship with each other (which she should ask you for by the way). *Shivers* Hopefuly thats the last time I talk about marriage untill I'm 30.

Reread the material you've been learning here.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dannyrt34

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Haha

Maybe have sex with her.

That should leave an impression.

And if it doesn't, hey you still got it.:woo:
 
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Morphiex

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put on a pink bunny outfit
then go to her house
ring the doorbell
and then start jumping all around her
then just leave .....
il bet you that will leave an impression on her =P
 
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