Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Leave the girls alone, until u've got job/$

metoo

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and your education secured, or you will end up having nothing but kids, never get to go anywhere or have anything. A man can wait until he's 35 to have kids, a woman until she's 30, and that's if you don't adopt. Believe me, money worries destroy lots of relationships. If you dont build your money making ability in your youth, you will never have anything, period. The P**s can wait. Don't let it destroy you. You will not BELIEVE how bad those teenaged "hotties" will look in 15 years, most of them. Get one who has PROVEN that she won't get fat, become a drunk, etc, by 10 or more years of living like she cares about herself. Better yet, go overseas and get an Asian gal. None of them smoke or drink, and very few are or get fat later. There are millions of lovely women there who are just waiting for you to bring them here. So relax, there is no pressure on you at all, once you realize this in your heart of hearts.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is the high school forum. We're just dating recreationally. But you're right, education is the most important thing.
 

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it's funny you say this because I am almost finished earning my MBA. I own my own two story brick house, 40 acres of land, bought a brand new truck in July that had a $48,000 price tag, very minimal debt along with a 750 credit rating, I know how to save $$$. recently I was picked over by a single mom for a guy who works in a shop installing stereo equipment. drives a 90's model Ford Ranger with Wal-mart spinners, has a GED, just moved back in with his mom after he and his ex brokeup, and does nothing but piss, moan, and whine in his facebook status about how bad his luck is and why nobody likes him.
 

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count yourself lucky, man. She's an idiot, so why would you want her?
 

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No, go for it for fun. If you leave it you won't have real skill or options when you get older. If I hit 35 and have to settle because I want kids that's redeculous.

For these years, it should be looked at as completely casual and as a source of entertainment. Entertainment which should involve a condom.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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