"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Leave the girls alone, until u've got job/$

metoo

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and your education secured, or you will end up having nothing but kids, never get to go anywhere or have anything. A man can wait until he's 35 to have kids, a woman until she's 30, and that's if you don't adopt. Believe me, money worries destroy lots of relationships. If you dont build your money making ability in your youth, you will never have anything, period. The P**s can wait. Don't let it destroy you. You will not BELIEVE how bad those teenaged "hotties" will look in 15 years, most of them. Get one who has PROVEN that she won't get fat, become a drunk, etc, by 10 or more years of living like she cares about herself. Better yet, go overseas and get an Asian gal. None of them smoke or drink, and very few are or get fat later. There are millions of lovely women there who are just waiting for you to bring them here. So relax, there is no pressure on you at all, once you realize this in your heart of hearts.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Rhino

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This is the high school forum. We're just dating recreationally. But you're right, education is the most important thing.
 

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it's funny you say this because I am almost finished earning my MBA. I own my own two story brick house, 40 acres of land, bought a brand new truck in July that had a $48,000 price tag, very minimal debt along with a 750 credit rating, I know how to save $$$. recently I was picked over by a single mom for a guy who works in a shop installing stereo equipment. drives a 90's model Ford Ranger with Wal-mart spinners, has a GED, just moved back in with his mom after he and his ex brokeup, and does nothing but piss, moan, and whine in his facebook status about how bad his luck is and why nobody likes him.
 

metoo

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count yourself lucky, man. She's an idiot, so why would you want her?
 

Jack Wealthy

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No, go for it for fun. If you leave it you won't have real skill or options when you get older. If I hit 35 and have to settle because I want kids that's redeculous.

For these years, it should be looked at as completely casual and as a source of entertainment. Entertainment which should involve a condom.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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