"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Leave her wanting more...ideas

yuppaz

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I've read and heard a lot from friends that are good in the game to "leave her wanting more". If you are good at this, how do you go about it? Have any storied or methods that you use over and over to get that result?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SandHawk

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What do you mean by that? Want for more what? Want for you? For sex?

The ideas are endless, but they all involve you removing yourself from the scene. I once gave my main plate a ride home, we made out in the car for 10 minutes in front of her house while I put on some cheesy 'romantic' music, and then kicked her out of the car. I sometimes, but not always, walk her to the metro station, make out and then push her off to catch a metro. If by wanting more you mean sex, make sure to shove your hands down her pants while you're dropping her off. I've more than once fingered her until she had soaking wet panties on the station platform, only to push her in the metro and then run off.

The trick is simple: Make sure you are in control of when you leave. However, don't leave unexpected, just announce it early on and then go, even(or esp.) if she begs you to stay.
 

yuppaz

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More along the lines of after the initial interaction, making her want to hear more from you. If I'm at the point where I'm in her panties, it's cake from there, I mean more so in the start of the interaction. For example after having a good initial interaction, I tend to blow it by not giving them a good reason to WANT to follow up with me. Psychologically getting them to want to hear more from me early on is what I mean. Like not being an open book, it's my nature to be like that, so I'de like to learn how to be more mysterious from those that pull it off well.
 

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SandHawk said:
What do you mean by that? Want for more what? Want for you? For sex?

The ideas are endless, but they all involve you removing yourself from the scene. I once gave my main plate a ride home, we made out in the car for 10 minutes in front of her house while I put on some cheesy 'romantic' music, and then kicked her out of the car. I sometimes, but not always, walk her to the metro station, make out and then push her off to catch a metro. If by wanting more you mean sex, make sure to shove your hands down her pants while you're dropping her off. I've more than once fingered her until she had soaking wet panties on the station platform, only to push her in the metro and then run off.

The trick is simple: Make sure you are in control of when you leave. However, don't leave unexpected, just announce it early on and then go, even(or esp.) if she begs you to stay.
are you fuking serious? pushing her on the metro and run off, kicking her out the car? ur a rude fuker, lol. you can still leave her wanting me without being a jerk you know?
 

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tony-montana said:
are you fuking serious? pushing her on the metro and run off, kicking her out the car? ur a rude fuker, lol. you can still leave her wanting me without being a jerk you know?
There's a subtle difference here between being a jerk, and being extremely playful. I understand that my actions come off as being a jerk, but all of this is being playful with her. Telling her to get out of the car at 3:30 in the morning because I want to go to bed and she can't explain to her parents why she isn't sleeping home for the 4th time that week, results in me dropped her off and then tell her to get out.

The moments where I slip my hands in her pants to get her really horny usually happens AFTER we already had sex. Last wednesday we had sex 3 times and she had 6 or 7 orgasms, so I just wanted to give her a little souvenier for on the way home :p. And she does the same thing to me. I've had her several times trying to drive me wild in a club by rubbing over my pants, or giving me looks.

But sometimes you just to have be the man, and take charge. Girls love it when you take charge and be very playful.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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terran2k

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you can tell internally when things are at a high. that's when you bail soon after. dont wait for the high to wear off.
 
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