"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ShizamDaMan

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I'll get right down to it: what are your guys' takes on leaving messages on answering machines if you absoluetly can't reach a chick?

I met this one girl Friday and got the number. I been trying to call today, but keep getting an answering message. This same girl has been recently talking to female friends of mine about why I haven't called. She's kinda curious as to why I asked for the number in the first place.

Anyway I'm thinking if I can't reach her tonight I might leave a small message so she at least knows I'm not ignoring her. Something along the lines of "Hey it's ShizamDaMan, guess you're not here right now so I'll try again some other time. Peace out." I prefer the 3 day rule to contact and don't really feel like waiting any longer. She's already wondering why the hell I haven't called, and the mystery is there now :D
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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blienk

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Personally I don't like leaving messages on anyone's voicemail, but that's just me. Leaving messages is fine as long as you keep it short and to the point. Most importantly, only do it once. I'm sure you know this, but few things are less attractive to a girl then coming home to find multiple messages from the same guy on her answering machine.
 

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There was a DeAngelo newsletter some time back about this...or maybe it was a DJ Newsletter tip...

Anyway, leave a short message on her answering machine that says something like this..."Hey, this is ShizamDaMan...Guess you're not here right now. Tell you what, gimme a call at EXACTLY 8:33PM tomorrow night at 555-5555 and we'll talk."

Now, make sure to pick some random time out of the blue for this. Something weird. (In other words, not 8:00 or 8:30. EXACTLY 8:33.)

Then, when she calls you at 8:33 the next night, and if she got the message she probably will. Immediately interrupt her and say, "It's 8:32." and hang up. Yes, hang up. (Make sure you say this in a playful tone and make sure she knows what you've said so she doesn't think you just hung up.)

She'll call you back a minute later laughing her ass off if all has gone well.

Now, I've never tried this. But, it seemed funny to me, so I thought I'd let you in on it.

Good luck.
 

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That sounds fun Drowning! Thats what I would do.

But before i called the first time i would either make a decision whether i was going to talk to a machine or not, becuase if she has caller ID it will show you calling like 3 or 4 times before you actually talked to the machine.
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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