"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Leather Jackets

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I have never had one and I am planning on getting one as a stylish piece / outerwear for the temperatures between my winter coat and to the point where outerwear is not needed.

I have no idea what I am looking for other than something timeless and/or simple.
I found (attached one) recently. Looking for your advice. Post your jackets if you have.

Cheers
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Prefer the bomber jacket or biker jacket style. They have more of a casual b@dass look to them. When buying leather you have to first consider if you want faux leather or real leather. The real leather costs a lot more, but it tends to age well. Real leather as it ages gets more wrinkled and weathered giving it a more rugged look. The faux leather is typically half the price and does not have that effect, but the faux leather nowadays looks very similar to the real thing and even feels like it. I prefer to spend a bit more on the real stuff as you tend to have more life out of it, and it ages better.
My favorite is my Perry Ellis lambskin bomber jacket. Got it for around $225 on sale a couple years ago, but it is well made and it has lasted me a while. Also the lambskin has a nice feel to it. I do not think they have this one anymore but they have similar stuff.
 

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Hey BB what do you recommend in a leather biker jacket / crossover streetwear?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I like Icon as a brand: http://www.rideicon.com/ They have a lot of great stuff, and the prices are not too outrageous. The pic above is not mine, but I have that same jacket. Girls drool over it. It's much too heavy to wear very long off the bike, because it's real gear, which I believe very strongly in if you're riding a motorcycle. The replacement value of all my gear is probably more than my bike is worth. But I can face-plant into pavement at 60 mph and walk away with just a few bruises.
 

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Thank you guys ! Now I'm at an even bigger loss :). When choosing sh!t like this I always want the best to suit me and my needs which leads to cherry picking .... Be it knives, cars, shoes etc.

@Bible_Belt The bike is coming next year I suppose a small 125cc , probably an old two-stroke from the 70/80s like the one attached. I'll use it for mostly for commute since next year the Govt is taking away my 50% public transport relief. Some forest roads from time to time. Back to jackets.

So I went all out and instead of going for a certain type I looked for national manufacturers and see what I would like / what would intrigue me.

Since it's all based in my country it makes it easier. I selected DORJAN for the variety of shapes and the brand is well respected. Not only they produce only in lambskin but also offer tailoring and/or a desired colours they have available.

https://sklep.dorjan.pl/pl/p/Kurtka-skorzana-meska-DORJAN-CM-KEN160/1093
Also dark brown, the most expensive one, this one is actually made from goat skin , a step up ?

https://sklep.dorjan.pl/pl/p/Kurtka-skorzana-meska-DORJAN-CM-RAF160/1084 Like this one although the logo on the left tit is annoying. Dark brown / dark chocolate colour on this is great as well. Goat skin

Lamb skin

https://sklep.dorjan.pl/pl/p/Kurtka-skorzana-meska-DORJAN-OLG950_1/162
https://sklep.dorjan.pl/pl/p/Kurtka-skorzana-meska-DORJAN-CM-RAM450/503
https://sklep.dorjan.pl/pl/p/Kurtka-skorzana-meska-DORJAN-PAO501/157
https://sklep.dorjan.pl/pl/p/Kurtka-skorzana-meska-DORJAN-JAN335/179
https://sklep.dorjan.pl/pl/p/Kurtka-skorzana-meska-DORJAN-TRSZ450/336


Then there is this guy http://www.dudziak-sklep.pl/offer/48803_michal_dwoina.html . Looks rugged as fvck to me. Also can be tailored. And its the cheapest !


My taste is usually sh!t instead of the sh!t so, please guys, help me filter out the do's from the don'ts.

All your input is much appreciated !
 

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