"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Learning to dance for clubbing

Analytic

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Am thinking about learning some moves so I'll be able to dance in clubs. Most of the guys in clubs don't really dance id say, they just move to the rhyme I guess thats ok but it just feels wierd for me to start doing that. Maybe am a perfectionist but I wanna be able to know exackly what am doing rather then just move my body everywhere looking silly. I know that there is poping and that seems pretty cool but is there a certain type of dance that works well in clubs that the chicks dig?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Trapper

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sure it does..if you are a good dancer, your chances would increase a lot..i personally have been clubbing for 2 years regularly.. certain of types only hip-pop and pop style dances..freestyle..forget salsa okay..
 

Impact

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I think its cool if you take some lessons (modern, video-clip moves), but if you really like the music in clubs, and CONFIDENTLY move to the rythm, its all good.
For salsa however you need to take lessons, and that is one passional dance, I recommend it to all the DJs.
 
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