"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Learning to dance for clubbing

Analytic

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Aug 21, 2006
Messages
247
Reaction score
3
Am thinking about learning some moves so I'll be able to dance in clubs. Most of the guys in clubs don't really dance id say, they just move to the rhyme I guess thats ok but it just feels wierd for me to start doing that. Maybe am a perfectionist but I wanna be able to know exackly what am doing rather then just move my body everywhere looking silly. I know that there is poping and that seems pretty cool but is there a certain type of dance that works well in clubs that the chicks dig?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Trapper

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 28, 2006
Messages
229
Reaction score
0
sure it does..if you are a good dancer, your chances would increase a lot..i personally have been clubbing for 2 years regularly.. certain of types only hip-pop and pop style dances..freestyle..forget salsa okay..
 

Impact

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Mar 24, 2005
Messages
205
Reaction score
1
Location
UK
I think its cool if you take some lessons (modern, video-clip moves), but if you really like the music in clubs, and CONFIDENTLY move to the rythm, its all good.
For salsa however you need to take lessons, and that is one passional dance, I recommend it to all the DJs.
 
Top