"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Learning Photography + Hot Model + FB

Warrior74

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So I bought a camera while back, mainly to shoot DSLR video for my company. But, I found that I really like shooting pictures. So the last few months I've been shooting behind the scenes photos on our video productions and shooting a few events.

Recently I shot this young 21 year old model on my first photo shoot. We just went to the park, I had her wear a nice sun dress and we just went out and had fun. It was great because she was so carefree and so damn sweet. It was really easy to work with her and I got some pretty good photos and some decent video. She loved it all. Ever since she's been posting them all over Facebook.

Now I have girls hitting me up on FB wanting me to take photos of them. Especially the girls I asked to model for me and who kinda blew me off. Also I'm getting my model's friends asking me to take photos. It's crazy.

Now I know a ton of photographer dudes who bang their models. And I could go that route, but mainly it's just huge social proof as far as I'm concerned. Also one of my buddies asked me to do some freelance photography work for his photog company which I'm jumping on because I need the dough.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I know a few snappers who plough a lot of chicks they shoot.

And these guys are not good looking IMO. Yet, they have good verbal game and use it well.
I think being a photographer gives you great access to hot azz - more than most guys - so I would be using my powers for evil. :D
 

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Terry Richardson is the ultimate when it comes to guys who look like they've been hit with a shovel yet get tons of @ss due to their line of work and the verbal game they can run.
 

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And you've hit on the secret of being an artist. Women love being permanently idolized. I've been able to bang a few telling them I would like to paint them before age runs riot over their bodies.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Warrior74

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CrashOverRide said:
Warrior I wanted to discuss an opportunity with you that goes hand in hand with your skills (also related to warrior forum)

Your PMs are off though :(

I don't do business through this forum. I like to keep my private and business life separate, but if you have a question that I can help you with I will. PMs on.


Solomon said:
http://supermanpua.blogspot.com/2012/06/superman-becoming-man-of-means.html

^^this guy's blog is pretty solid, He went from being a Pua to now owning a modeling magazine. He basically is trying to use it to get laid but lately he is realzing that he can actually make money if he is serious. One of the better blogs out there IMO
I'll check it out.
 

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speaking from experience:

As a published photographer, you are supposed to be so aloof that nothing any model says or does has any effect on you. If they come up and rub their tits in your face trying to elicit a reaction, you are supposed to say: "Did you just get glitter on my camera?" The extreme aloofness and "I don't care, I'm alway around girls way hotter than you" attitude cause most models to writhe uncontrollably until the moment that they can't take it anymore and literally throw themselves at you for a little attention.

That is the real trick. Not all photogs are dorks either. I was assigned to the hottest models so that they wouldn't get hit on so much when we were out. I shot with an olympus e-300 at the time because they are made out of solid aluminum and are good in a fight...but thats another topic altogether. Anyways, Success in that industry depends on how much you can get mediocre girls to feel terrible about the way they look when they see your pics of professional models.

Good luck, photography is a fun ride. Once you get published, you can pretty much be as much of an a-hole to everyone and get away with it all you like.:D
 
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