"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Learning Photography + Hot Model + FB

Warrior74

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So I bought a camera while back, mainly to shoot DSLR video for my company. But, I found that I really like shooting pictures. So the last few months I've been shooting behind the scenes photos on our video productions and shooting a few events.

Recently I shot this young 21 year old model on my first photo shoot. We just went to the park, I had her wear a nice sun dress and we just went out and had fun. It was great because she was so carefree and so damn sweet. It was really easy to work with her and I got some pretty good photos and some decent video. She loved it all. Ever since she's been posting them all over Facebook.

Now I have girls hitting me up on FB wanting me to take photos of them. Especially the girls I asked to model for me and who kinda blew me off. Also I'm getting my model's friends asking me to take photos. It's crazy.

Now I know a ton of photographer dudes who bang their models. And I could go that route, but mainly it's just huge social proof as far as I'm concerned. Also one of my buddies asked me to do some freelance photography work for his photog company which I'm jumping on because I need the dough.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I know a few snappers who plough a lot of chicks they shoot.

And these guys are not good looking IMO. Yet, they have good verbal game and use it well.
I think being a photographer gives you great access to hot azz - more than most guys - so I would be using my powers for evil. :D
 

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Terry Richardson is the ultimate when it comes to guys who look like they've been hit with a shovel yet get tons of @ss due to their line of work and the verbal game they can run.
 

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And you've hit on the secret of being an artist. Women love being permanently idolized. I've been able to bang a few telling them I would like to paint them before age runs riot over their bodies.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Warrior74

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CrashOverRide said:
Warrior I wanted to discuss an opportunity with you that goes hand in hand with your skills (also related to warrior forum)

Your PMs are off though :(

I don't do business through this forum. I like to keep my private and business life separate, but if you have a question that I can help you with I will. PMs on.


Solomon said:
http://supermanpua.blogspot.com/2012/06/superman-becoming-man-of-means.html

^^this guy's blog is pretty solid, He went from being a Pua to now owning a modeling magazine. He basically is trying to use it to get laid but lately he is realzing that he can actually make money if he is serious. One of the better blogs out there IMO
I'll check it out.
 

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speaking from experience:

As a published photographer, you are supposed to be so aloof that nothing any model says or does has any effect on you. If they come up and rub their tits in your face trying to elicit a reaction, you are supposed to say: "Did you just get glitter on my camera?" The extreme aloofness and "I don't care, I'm alway around girls way hotter than you" attitude cause most models to writhe uncontrollably until the moment that they can't take it anymore and literally throw themselves at you for a little attention.

That is the real trick. Not all photogs are dorks either. I was assigned to the hottest models so that they wouldn't get hit on so much when we were out. I shot with an olympus e-300 at the time because they are made out of solid aluminum and are good in a fight...but thats another topic altogether. Anyways, Success in that industry depends on how much you can get mediocre girls to feel terrible about the way they look when they see your pics of professional models.

Good luck, photography is a fun ride. Once you get published, you can pretty much be as much of an a-hole to everyone and get away with it all you like.:D
 
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