"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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addidasss

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i'm learning to play guitar. can anyone give me some tips or what article/ post in here that help me learn.


i remember one guy who wrote on guitar tips in here. now when i search 'guitar tips' i have so overwhelming info/posts that was not what i was looking for. i couldn't find the same post.

if anyone know any tips or posts of tips in here, please direct me.

thanks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Start off by playing songs first. They will keep you more motivated. Forget learning chords independantly by themselves, that is boring and you will almost always forget where your fingers are supposed to go.

Go to any guitar website and search for any of your favorite songs. Love songs in particular because it's the love songs that will enable you to learn the other chords that surround any key. You will notice a pattern and realize that every popular song follows the same damn formula. Start tonight. Print a sheet with pictures of the finger formation to the major chords and their minors. Do this and you will have learned all the chords and thier keys and some songs in one month as A WHOLE instead of a step by step formula.
 

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what would be a good dvd to buy so i can learn easily?

i'm having trouble with the F chord. my finger just won't press strong enough to produce crispy sound.
 

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Originally posted by addidasss
what would be a good dvd to buy so i can learn easily?

i'm having trouble with the F chord. my finger just won't press strong enough to produce crispy sound.
That's a problem for everyone when they first start playing. You need to build up the strength in your hand and fingers before you'll be able to get a perfect bar chord. It took me about 3 weeks of practice before I could get it to sound clear.

Practice it every day and eventually you'll have the strength to pull it off.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by addidasss
what would be a good dvd to buy so i can learn easily?

i'm having trouble with the F chord. my finger just won't press strong enough to produce crispy sound.
Print out chord guitar chords of songs you like (HarmonyCentral), then get yourself a good Guitar Chord book with pictures and clear diagrams. Guitar Center has some good DVD series for beginners.

After that, if you can afford it, and you really want to get decent as fast as possible, invest in a few guitar lessons. Totally worth it.
 

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Both of my sons play guitar. They prefer learning songs using tabs. You should learn chords too, but tabs seem to make it easier to learn songs.


This is the site my boys use to get tabs:

http://www.ultimate-guitar.com/
 
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