Learning game will Fvck you up

"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Realthangpoon

Don Juan

Apr 20, 2021

I think it depends on how you define ‘game’. By internalizing parts of it it just makes contact with women easier over the years and so it doesn’t feel like game anymore. I mean trying to stand your ground/keeping frame, teasing, making jokes etc. are just good qualities to have and not just ‘game’. That’s gotten me more pvssy over the years than trying to be something you’re not, which feels like you’re betraying yourself anyway. And so many people are faking themselves the last years that it’s a breath of fresh air to just blatantly be yourself (and getting results with that).

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.