"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Learning game will Fvck you up

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I’ve said this before fvck game self improvement and improving your life is the way to go. While your looking up what to say to a girl that guy oblivious to game is looking to advance his career and finances. He’s hitting the gym hard and looking for ways to be more knowledgeable and capable. All this is incredibly taxing and will build TRUE rock solid confidence and character. Do you think a woman is that stupid that she’ll pass that up over some scrawny broke loser who said something clever or begged her? Stop it. Chase excellence. It’s hard but trust me. Life will reward the men tremendously with wealth, opportunity, respect, and of course women. Your life is a house. Build if day by day with solid bricks and cement. Don’t fvck this up.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I’ve said this before fvck game self improvement and improving your life is the way to go. While your looking up what to say to a girl that guy oblivious to game is looking to advance his career and finances. He’s hitting the gym hard and looking for ways to be more knowledgeable and capable. All this is incredibly taxing and will build TRUE rock solid confidence and character. Do you think a woman is that stupid that she’ll pass that up over some scrawny broke loser who said something clever or begged her? Stop it. Chase excellence. It’s hard but trust me. Life will reward the men tremendously with wealth, opportunity, respect, and of course women. Your life is a house. Build if day by day with solid bricks and cement. Don’t fvck this up.
Good wisdom
 

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That sounds good in theory man but in practice it doesn't pan out. The dude who works at Fat Pizza, has coke bottle glasses and aspires to live in a van can still pull a woman faster than a dude with a million dollar yacht and a lambo aslong as his game is on point.

Do you think a woman is that stupid that she’ll pass that up over some scrawny broke loser who said something clever or begged her?
Yes. I'm proof bro sauce..

Go to any nightclub where you see some dude breaking it down in the middle lane while all the broskis nurse their beers and pop their collars on the sidelines. Having a Tommy shirt and a good job doesn't mean sh1t in the dating game.


Social prowess is everything.
 
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This thread doesn't make any sense. It's almost like you're saying that a dude who has goals and working hard to reach success can't or shouldn't learn game at the same time.

As a man you're always learning game, not just about women, but about everything in life and that's how it always should be.
 

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I understand. And you would be right, except for the nature of women. They do not follow the logic that you tell. You tell it like a man sees it. Women are an emotional experiment in the process and can be gamed, manipulated, and used by the men that know-how. At a minimum, you must be aware of it on both the women's and men's sides. You don't have to play, but you do have to be aware when others do it or you will get beat to hell.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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you can 'learn' what's in game books in under 5 minutes (hold eye contact, tease, self -amuse, statements etc) so may as well just learn it anyway lol. But don't expect it to give you an 'edge' over any other guy. Only people with advanced autism or something need to 'learn' that stuff lol
 

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I m not pretty not rich. Once I learnt basic game always had options. RP doesn't just get you poon. Also helps you deal with the cognitive dissonance between the blue pill lies and the evidence you see with your own eyes. Probably age dependent too. I suspect the baseline s a lot higher for the social media generations.
 
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Guys who don't have Game and don't know how powerful it is would obviously make a thread like this.

Game combined with SMV is ideal. But SMV (career, money etc) is useless if you don't have Game.
What's your definition of game? How old are you, and how old are the girls you're usually with?
 

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I agree with OP, Ill tell you why.

I have a friend with status. he literally messages women like a Dyslexic Paraplegic, no more than 3 words....

it is absolutely gob smacking how women carry the DM convo. then within 5 messages hes always got a girl coming to suck the D.

he will message 2 women at the same time who are sitting on the same sofa.

you know what they do ? Giggle. If it was a guy with no status they would crucify him

Status fellas .....Status
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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you can 'learn' what's in game books in under 5 minutes (hold eye contact, tease, self -amuse, statements etc) so may as well just learn it anyway lol. But don't expect it to give you an 'edge' over any other guy. Only people with advanced autism or something need to 'learn' that stuff lol
I don't like looking many girls in the eye because they're constantly being awful and trying to manipulate me/everything. I don't feel that they deserve for me to look at them.
 

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I agree with OP, Ill tell you why.

I have a friend with status. he literally messages women like a Dyslexic Paraplegic, no more than 3 words....

it is absolutely gob smacking how women carry the DM convo. then within 5 messages hes always got a girl coming to suck the D.

he will message 2 women at the same time who are sitting on the same sofa.

you know what they do ? Giggle. If it was a guy with no status they would crucify him

Status fellas .....Status
What's his status?
 

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I agree with OP, Ill tell you why.

I have a friend with status. he literally messages women like a Dyslexic Paraplegic, no more than 3 words....

it is absolutely gob smacking how women carry the DM convo. then within 5 messages hes always got a girl coming to suck the D.

he will message 2 women at the same time who are sitting on the same sofa.

you know what they do ? Giggle. If it was a guy with no status they would crucify him

Status fellas .....Status
Of course, women would rather share an Alpha's d!ck than having an exclusive Beta.
 

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Of course, women would rather share an Alpha's d!ck than having an exclusive Beta.
I wonder how much of these stereotypical responses like this are based on actually witnessing something vs. just quoting the same old theories of "be alpha, go to gym, Chad is God, etc etc"
 

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Disagree, its two different types of confidence. I never lacked for confidence in my career, but I needed help on how to understand women.
Exactly.
There is loads of examples of rich beta/simps out there.
They might have power, money and all the toys; but in the end of the day they are still small boys that do not what to do when it comes to women. :eek:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I wonder how much of these stereotypical responses like this are based on actually witnessing something vs. just quoting the same old theories of "be alpha, go to gym, Chad is God, etc etc"
What manfrombelow said is true and those who’ve seen it/lived it can confirm.

eventually we all have to get from behind our keyboards and go do it. True progress comes from out there, not here.
 

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I wonder how much of these stereotypical responses like this are based on actually witnessing something vs. just quoting the same old theories of "be alpha, go to gym, Chad is God, etc etc"
Too many my observant friend, too many. It's unfortunate that the majority of responses have turned into ego inflating red pill theory /quotes ad nauseam regurgitation.

These are the cartoon alphas. "I've read the rational male, therefore I am a self-appointed red pill alpha (at least on the internet!"
 

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Too many my observant friend, too many. It's unfortunate that the majority of responses have turned into ego inflating red pill theory /quotes ad nauseam regurgitation.

These are the cartoon alphas. "I've read the rational male, therefore I am a self-appointed red pill alpha (at least on the internet!"
I'm willing to listen to real stories if they're actually real. But it would have to be more detailed than what's usually on here.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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